Welcome to Clomid and Cabernet! I am so happy that you decided to stop by.
This little community has been on my mind for quite some time. You can read my story here, but the short version is that my husband and I struggled for many years before we had our two children. We lost four along the way, the most recent loss at 18 weeks gestation. Needless to say, it hasn’t been easy.
We know that we are the lucky ones. We were able to bring our daughter and our son into this world, and we feel grateful for them every single day.
Our infertility journey included many ups and downs, and some very, very absurd moments. Let’s just say that we tried everything. Legs in the air for 45 minutes? Check! Acupuncture for both of us? Check! Trying to get pregnant while on tour with a band? Check! Yes, we tried everything.
And don’t forget the importance of that very tasty Cabernet (or Merlot, or Sam Adams, etc.)…
My husband and I did as most infertiles do along the way…we remained fairly silent. Other than our families and a few very close friends, we didn’t share the details of our journey. We were frustrated, ashamed, and alone. While I did try to join some of the infertility message boards along the way, I never quite found the right place for me. No one seemed to be talking about the legs in the air thing…forget about the fertility monitor on the tour bus.
I promised myself that when I got to the other side of my journey through infertility, I would create a community for people to connect. Clomid and Cabernet is for everyone: The couples undergoing treatment, the friends who don’t know what to say, and the family members standing helpless on the sidelines. Clomid and Cabernet is a place where we can all come together to share our journeys, ask some questions, and hopefully find a way to laugh a little.
The Forums: The Forums, or message boards, are the place to connect with others, build friendships, and seek support. I recommend creating a profile and joining a group or two. This is a great place to share you stories and get to know others traveling the same path.
The Eggfessional: Located in the Forums, the Eggfessional is the place to vent your frustrations, share your absurd stories, and say the things that you wouldn’t otherwise say. The Eggfessional is open to guests only, in order to protect your anonymity. In other words, say anything!
Ask Dr. Marc: Marc Kalan, M.D. is an infertility specialist in Los Angeles. He is here to answer your questions and provide some guidance. Dr. Marc is here for couples struggling with infertility, but he is also here for friends and family members who have questions too! Send in your concerns and Dr. Marc will give you an answer.
Share Your Story: Clomid and Cabernet is all about breaking the silence of infertility. I would love to share your stories here. Bloggers and non-bloggers are all welcome. Please send in your submissions so that we can all start breaking the silence together.
This site has been on my mind for many years. I truly hope to build a positive community where people can share their stories, connect with others, and laugh a little along the way. Believe me, I know that there isn’t anything even remotely entertaining about infertility. But I do believe in safety in numbers and sharing our stories. We have nothing to hide. We are warriors, and we are all in this together.
What do you say? Will you fight the good fight with me? Will you stand up and break the silence?Pin It